Privacy Policy — Friends Ahoy
The Short Version (Plain English)
  • We collect your name, email, and Connection Profile answers to help you find your people.
  • We never sell your personal information. Not to anyone, not for any price.
  • We may use aggregated, anonymized community statistics (for example, "X% of respondents are in the Rebuilding tide") to support research, articles, or grant applications. We never share your individual answers or identity for these purposes.
  • Your open-text vulnerability responses are never shared publicly or used for marketing.
  • Your quiz scoring happens in your browser; your responses are saved to our database when you finish so we can build the community.
  • You can request access to, correction of, or full deletion of your data at any time.
  • Colorado residents have specific additional rights listed in Section 9.
  • Questions? Email connect@friendsahoy.com. We'll get back to you as soon as we can.

Who We Are & Scope

Friends Ahoy LLC is a platonic friendship and community platform. We operate the website friendsahoy.com and related services (collectively, the "Services"). This Policy applies to all personal information we collect through our website, the Connection Profile quiz, email signup forms, and event registrations.

Data Controller: Friends Ahoy LLC
Contact: connect@friendsahoy.com

Information We Collect

2.1 Information You Provide Directly

🔓 No Accounts, No Passwords Friends Ahoy does not require users to create accounts or set passwords. You share information with us only when you choose to: by submitting the Connection Profile, joining our mailing list, RSVP'ing to an event, or contacting us directly. There is no login, no profile page, and no user dashboard.

Email Signup ("Join the Crew"): First name, email address, and signup source.

Connection Profile Quiz:

  • Name, email, location (city/state, not precise GPS), age range
  • Quiz answers across six friendship dimensions
  • Friendship values, dealbreakers, Island preferences
  • Open-text responses: dream friend activities, personal notes, three describing words
  • What brought you to Friends Ahoy
🛡️ How Your Quiz Data Is Handled Your quiz scoring (radar chart, dimension scores, Crew Role) is calculated in your browser as you go, not on our servers. When you reach the end of the quiz, your responses are sent to our database so we can begin learning what our community looks like and improving the platform. If you then choose to submit your full profile for matching by clicking the submit button, your contact details and matching preferences are added to that record. Either way, you can request deletion at any time by emailing connect@friendsahoy.com.

Event Registrations: Name, email, event selection, RSVP status, and any optional information you provide.

2.2 Information Collected Automatically

When you visit our site, we and our analytics provider (Google Analytics via MonsterInsights) may automatically collect:

  • IP address (anonymized where possible)
  • Browser type, operating system, device type
  • Pages visited and time spent on each page
  • Referring URL and general geographic location (city/country level)

2.3 What We Do NOT Collect

  • Social Security numbers or government ID
  • Financial account or credit card numbers
  • Precise GPS or real-time location data
  • Biometric or health data
  • Data from anyone under 18 years of age

How We Use Your Information

Purpose Data Used Legal Basis
Provide Connection Profile results & matchingQuiz responses, name, email, locationConsent
Send newsletters and event updatesName, emailConsent (opt-in)
Operate and improve the websiteAnalytics, server logsLegitimate interest
Respond to inquiriesName, email, message contentContractual necessity
Ensure security and prevent fraudIP address, server security logsLegitimate interest
Comply with legal obligationsData required by lawLegal obligation
Facilitate event registrationsName, email, RSVP infoConsent
Aggregated community insights for research, articles, and grant applicationsDe-identified statistics only (never individual data or identifying information)Legitimate interest

Sharing & Disclosure

4.1 We Do Not Sell Your Personal Information

Friends Ahoy LLC does not sell, rent, trade, or lease your personal information to any third party. That includes data brokers, advertisers, and marketing firms. This is an unconditional commitment.

What this commitment covers and what it doesn't: "Personal information" means data that identifies you, including your name, email address, individual Connection Profile answers, IP address, and similar identifying data. We may use aggregated, de-identified statistics about our community (for example, "X% of respondents in the Rebuilding tide reported feeling isolated") to support research, write articles, or apply for grants. Aggregated statistics of this kind are not personal information because they cannot be linked back to you. We will never share, sell, or disclose your individual answers or identity for any of these purposes.

4.2 Service Providers

We share data only with providers necessary to operate our Services. All providers are contractually bound to use your data solely to perform services for us.

ProviderPurposeData Shared
HostingerWeb hostingServer logs, uploaded files
Google AnalyticsWebsite analyticsAnonymized usage data
Google Forms/SheetsProfile response storageSubmitted quiz responses only
WPFormsEmail signup processingName, email
FluentSMTPEmail deliveryName, email
WordfenceSecurity & firewallIP addresses (security only)
UpdraftPlusAutomated backupsEncrypted site data

4.3 Legal Disclosures

We may disclose your information if required to comply with applicable law, enforce our Terms of Service, protect the safety of our users or the public, or detect and prevent fraud. We will notify you of any such disclosure to the extent permitted by law.

4.4 Business Transfers

If Friends Ahoy LLC is acquired or transfers its assets, your data may be transferred. We will notify you at least 30 days before any such transfer and give you the right to request deletion of your data beforehand.

Data Retention

Data TypeRetention PeriodBasis
Email subscribersUntil unsubscribe or deletion requestConsent-based
Connection Profile responses3 years from submission, or until deletion requestService provision
Event registrations2 years from event dateLegitimate interest
Website analytics26 months (Google Analytics default)Legitimate interest
Server logs90 daysSecurity / legal compliance
Support emails3 years from resolutionLegal compliance

You may request deletion of your data at any time regardless of this schedule by emailing connect@friendsahoy.com.

Cookies & Tracking

CategoryProviderPurpose
EssentialWordPress / HostingerSecurity tokens, form submission, spam prevention. Cannot be disabled without breaking the site.
AnalyticsGoogle AnalyticsTracks pages visited, time on site, referral sources.
SecurityWordfenceBot detection, brute-force protection.
PreferencesWordPressRemembers cookie consent and user settings.

How to Control Cookies

  • Cookie banner: Accept or decline non-essential cookies on first visit.
  • Browser settings: Most browsers let you refuse or delete cookies.
  • Google Analytics opt-out: You can opt out of Google Analytics tracking through your browser settings or by using a third-party browser extension of your choice.
  • Do Not Track: We honor browser DNT signals by disabling non-essential analytics.

Security

  • SSL/TLS encryption (HTTPS) for all data in transit
  • Wordfence firewall, malware scanning, and brute-force protection
  • Administrative access restricted to authorized personnel only
  • Strong passwords and two-factor authentication on site administrator logins (Friends Ahoy LLC staff only)
  • Automated daily backups with encrypted remote storage via UpdraftPlus
  • Regular updates to WordPress core, plugins, and themes
  • Connection Profile data in Google Sheets with role-based restricted access
⚠️ Important Notice No method of internet transmission is 100% secure. In the event of a data breach affecting your rights, we will notify you as required by applicable law.

Sensitive Information

We understand that information about social anxiety, loneliness, lost friend groups, and personal vulnerabilities is deeply personal. Friends Ahoy is built on trust, and we treat this category with heightened care.

Your open-text vulnerability responses are:

  • Never displayed publicly without your explicit written consent
  • Never shared with other users or potential matches without your consent
  • Never used for advertising, marketing, or promotional purposes
  • Never sold to or shared with any third party
  • Stored with restricted access: accessible only to authorized Friends Ahoy LLC administrators

When we facilitate connections between community members, we share only the information you have explicitly indicated you are comfortable sharing.

Colorado Privacy Act (CPA)

CO Residents

Friends Ahoy LLC is based in Colorado and fully complies with the Colorado Privacy Act (C.R.S. § 6-1-1301 et seq.), effective July 1, 2023. If you are a Colorado resident, you have the following rights:

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Right to Access

Confirm whether we process your data and receive a copy of it within 45 days of a verified request.

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Right to Correction

Correct inaccurate personal data we hold about you.

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Right to Deletion

Request deletion of your personal data. We'll comply within 45 days except where legally required to retain data.

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Right to Portability

Receive your data in a portable, machine-readable format to transfer to another service.

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Opt Out of Profiling

The Connection Profile quiz involves profiling. You can opt out at any time by emailing us with subject "Opt Out of Profiling."

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Right to Appeal

If we decline your request, you may appeal. If your appeal is denied, you can contact the Colorado Attorney General's office.

How to Submit a CPA Request Email connect@friendsahoy.com with subject line "Colorado Privacy Rights Request." Include your name, the email address you've shared with us (if any), and the right(s) you wish to exercise. We will respond within the 45-day timeframe required by Colorado law. No fee for the first request per 12-month period.

Other Legal Notes

CAN-SPAM Act

All marketing emails comply with the CAN-SPAM Act. Every email includes a clear unsubscribe link, our contact information, and honest subject lines. We honor unsubscribe requests as required by law.

COPPA — Children's Privacy

Friends Ahoy is exclusively for adults 18+. We do not knowingly collect data from anyone under 18. If we discover we have collected data from a minor, we will delete it immediately. Contact us at connect@friendsahoy.com if you believe a minor has submitted data.

International Users & GDPR

Friends Ahoy LLC is a U.S.-based service. If you access our Services from the EU, EEA, or UK, your information may be transferred to and processed in the United States. Our legal bases under GDPR are consent (email subscriptions, Connection Profile, analytics cookies), legitimate interests (security, fraud prevention, service improvement), and legal obligation. EU/EEA/UK residents may lodge a complaint with their local supervisory authority or email connect@friendsahoy.com to exercise GDPR rights.

Your Rights & Do Not Sell

Regardless of where you live, you have the right to access, correct, or delete your personal information; withdraw consent or unsubscribe at any time; object to direct marketing; and request your data in a portable format. To exercise any right, email connect@friendsahoy.com. We will respond within 45 days and will never retaliate against you for exercising your privacy rights.

Friends Ahoy LLC does not sell or share your personal information for cross-context behavioral advertising under the California Consumer Privacy Act (CCPA/CPRA), Colorado Privacy Act (CPA), Virginia Consumer Data Protection Act (VCDPA), or similar state laws. To make a formal Do Not Sell or Do Not Share request, email us with the subject line "Do Not Sell My Data."

Policy Changes & Contact

When we make material changes to this Policy, we will update the "Last Updated" date at the top of this page and notify active subscribers by email. Continued use of our Services after the effective date constitutes acceptance of the updated policy.

Privacy Questions or Requests?

We're real people and we actually respond. Email us and we'll get back to you as soon as we can.

connect@friendsahoy.com

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