Friends Ahoy — Connection Profile
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Your Connection Profile

This isn't a personality test — it's 30 questions that help you understand how you connect. Answer honestly (not how you think you should answer) and we'll map how you connect, what you need, and which Crew Role fits you best.

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Let's Start Simple

Just the basics so we know who you are.

City and state, or just "remote" if location doesn't matter to you
18–24
25–34
35–45
45+
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Your Social Energy

How you recharge and how much social time feels good — not how much you think you "should" want.

Deep introvert
I need a lot of alone time. Social events drain me, but 1-on-1 conversations can be amazing.
Selective social
I enjoy socializing but need to choose carefully. Small groups over big parties.
Ambivert / it depends
Some weeks I want everyone around me, other weeks I want to disappear. It fluctuates.
Social butterfly
Being around people energizes me. I'd hang out every day if I could.
Not counting work or family obligations — just friend time
1–2 hours
A coffee date is plenty
3–5 hours
A couple good hangouts
5–10 hours
Regular social time matters
10+ hours
The more the better
1-on-1 only
I connect best when it's just two of us.
Small group (3–5 people)
Enough variety, but still intimate.
Medium group (6–12)
Like a dinner party or game night.
I'm flexible
Depends on the context and people.
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How You Communicate

This is where matching gets real. Two people can share every interest in the world, but if they communicate differently, the friendship won't click.

Pick your top 2
Texting
Short messages throughout the day
Voice/phone calls
Actually hearing someone's voice
Video calls
Face-to-face, even virtually
In person
Nothing beats being there
While gaming/activities
Side-by-side bonding
Memes & sharing links
"This reminded me of you"
Rapid back-and-forth
I reply quickly and love a running conversation.
Thoughtful but slow
I take my time but my replies are genuine. Don't take the delay personally.
Voice note person
I'd rather send a 2-minute ramble than type 3 sentences.
Minimal texter
I'd rather make plans and talk in person. Texting feels empty to me.
This is a huge compatibility signal most people ignore
Love comfortable silence
We can sit together and not talk and that's friendship.
Some silence is fine
A pause here and there is normal, but I like conversation flowing.
I fill the silence
Quiet moments make me anxious. I'd rather keep the energy going.
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Support & Vulnerability

How you show up when things get hard — and what you need from the people around you.

Just listen
Don't fix it. Don't advise. Just hear me.
Distract me
Take me somewhere. Make me laugh. Get me out of my head.
Help me solve it
I want someone to brainstorm solutions with me.
Give me space, then check in
I need to process alone first, but a "thinking of you" text means everything.
Slowly — trust is earnedOpen book from day 1
Hold space quietly
I sit with them in it. No rush to fix or fill the moment.
Share my own experience
I connect by saying "me too" — showing they're not alone.
Encourage and uplift
I remind them what's great about them. I want them to feel seen.
Help them think it through
I ask questions, offer perspective, help them see new angles.
Address it directly
I'd rather have an uncomfortable conversation than let it fester.
Avoid and hope it resolves
I go quiet. I'd rather let it pass than risk making it worse.
Process, then address
I need time to understand my own feelings before I can talk about it.
Diffuse with humor
I make a joke to break the tension, then we sort it out.
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Values & Depth

What matters to you in a friendship beyond shared hobbies. This is the layer most platforms skip entirely.

What makes a friendship feel real to you?
Radical honesty
Loyalty & reliability
Humor & not taking life too seriously
Growth & pushing each other
Acceptance without judgment
Adventure & trying new things
Deep conversations
Consistency & showing up
Keep it light
I want someone to have fun with. Deep conversations can happen naturally over time.
Balanced
I want someone I can both laugh with and be real with.
Go deep
I'm craving someone who wants to talk about life, meaning, fears, and dreams.
When does your real personality come out?
Morning person
Coffee and good conversation before noon
Afternoon / anytime
I'm flexible — no strong preference
Evening
I warm up as the day goes on
Late night
The real me comes out after 10pm
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Interests & Islands

What do you actually enjoy doing? Pick the Islands that call to you — these help us match you with people who share your world.

🎮 Gaming Cove
🌱 Growth Garden
🍳 Cookout Corner
🐾 Pet Paradise
🏀 Sports Shore
🪩 Night Owls
📚 Book Bay
🎵 Music Marina
🥾 Trailblazers
🎨 Creative Cove
🎬 Watch Party Bay
💪 Fitness Fleet
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Friendship Scenarios

These tell us more about how you actually connect than any multiple choice question ever could.

Imagine this...

You meet someone who just gets you. Same energy, same vibe, no awkwardness. You have a full Saturday together with zero obligations. What does that day look like?

Your "dream friend activity" — the thing you'd do if you had someone who was down
Chill & low-key
Couch, movies, snacks, conversation. No need to go anywhere.
Active & doing something
Hiking, games, cooking, building — I bond through activity.
Exploring & new experiences
New restaurants, events, road trips, anything we haven't done before.
Mix of everything
Sometimes chill, sometimes adventure. Depends on the mood.
The planner
I organize, coordinate, and make sure things actually happen.
The connector
I introduce people and see who'd get along with who.
The energy
I bring the laughs, the ideas, and the "let's do it" attitude.
The quiet one people pull aside
I'm not loud in groups, but people seek me out for real conversations after.
The reliable one
I'm there every time. I'm not flashy, but you can count on me.
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Final Details

A few more things that help us make matches that actually work.

Things that make a friendship feel unsafe or not worth pursuing (optional)
I connect best with similar people
Shared backgrounds, perspectives, and lifestyles make it easier.
I love learning from different people
Different backgrounds and perspectives make friendships richer.
Different is great — but core values must align
I'm open to differences in lifestyle, but we need to agree on what matters.
This is your chance to say the thing that doesn't fit in a checkbox
Yes, I'd try it!
Maybe — tell me more
Only if virtual
Not right now

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